MOTO did apparently finish their updates before HTC, but after the manufacturers are satisfied with them, then they go to the carriers. Sprint considered the EVO update a high priority, so they got it out first. Verizon has a number of Android devices, so they have more testing to do, and we all know they like to add their bloatware, so clearly it will take longer. I have an Incredible and I could care less when they update, so long as it is within a few weeks of all the other devices, which it will be. If you want it today, root your phone and install the leaked OS.
am going to assume from last post that verizon is adding stuff to the updates thus changing it?
this might answer a lot of my un asked questions as I always felt carriers should provide the wireless service but hands off the software and maybe these things will run as planned by the manufacture? only my opinion, mystified