commuter or defender I've never had a phone I did not drop. Never. And I don't mean just once, I mean that I have a tendency to drop phones. Generally after a few too many falls, they stop working (though for some reason, my last phone, palm centro was ridiculously indestructible). I have an Incredible now though and I'm guessing that a fall will probably kill it and I really need a case. A good case. But, I'm still mainly going to carry this in the pocket of my jeans, or slip it in a purse. Will the commuter protect my phone enough? Will the defender make slipping it into a jeans pocket undoable? Which do I need?