Okay first of all I'm not sure why people keep saying "blackdroids 3.x.x isn't an everyday rom because of <insert bug here>" I've been using his 3.0.1 rom as an everyday rom and its perfect. I can't even find a bug, there probably are a few I just don't see them.
Secondly, these guys work there butts off to bring gingerbread to a phone that will never officially get it. Yes there will be bugs, yes they will be fixed, and yes it will take time. But people make threads like this one or posts like these everyday, complaining isn't going to make things go any faster.
Thirdly, its not a race for donations or to be first. Why? Because if they put out a crap rom first that sucks, nobody is going to donate. Ever notice that BD doesn't put out official releases everyday? Its because he wants to try and fix possible bugs first and then release it. Stop asking for a spotless, perfect rom right off the bat, or go make your own. These things take time, if you want something perfect go back to a froyo rom.
Fourthly, I am not trying to flame or attack anybody, but this all needed to be said
Lets address each of your points.
1) You are one person. Your phone is different than my phone. The voltage and frequency required for it to run properly is different for each phone. If you are lucky enough that this ROM build with this particular kernel works on your phone, then that is great for you. It doesn't work on mine. Hence it makes the ROM "SEEM" buggy, when in fact it is simply a voltage/speed issue.
2) No non-Google, already in the field, phone manufacturers are going to be releasing 2.3 updates when they have been told by Google that 2.4 is just around the corner because it will be an "optimized" version of 2.3 and have 3.0 API integration. Please quit saying the Motorola Droid or any other phone is not getting Gingerbread. Your statement, at best, is a lie.
3) It damn well is a race to be first. And money is riding on being first. If you don't believe that fact, I am sorry. But that is the sad truth of ROM development today. You show me a ROM maker that doesn't have a donate link, I will show you that that ROM maker has been doing this less than 3 months.
4) It is a shame you said it wrong even though you had good intentions.