Wifi uses much more battery than 3G. To see what's causing battery drain for you, go to Settings --> About phone --> Battery Use
And that other forum link seems to be fighting over the answer, too =P
Not totally true. When I turn auto update off my droid still (sometimes) accesses the 3G network.on the power widget, just turn off the "update" button (second from right) and it won't access the 3G network.
At night when I lay down, I goto the (stock) power widget and make sure that everything is off. Then in the morning, I turn update back on, and bam it loads up with emails and other notifications. So I'm sure that its not checking through the night.
but I CAN still get calls.. which is what I want also. (I don't have a home phone anymore)