Having All of the Same Problems...
Just echoing the sentiment of the whole thread here, having the same problems with applications and processes running in the background without having initiated the process/app myself. What a waste. One thing I have noticed that I haven't seen mentioned here yet is that after using the task-killer to close the internet, when I reopen the internet it goes back to the same page I was viewing before I closed the last time, not to my home page. Anyone else having this problem?
Also, all the apps that were added through the update are worthless. Same as another poster, with Skype, tried it months ago, hated it and uninstalled it. I have no use for any of the new apps (My Verizon, Amazon MP3, etc.), and am so frustrated that I cannot uninstall them, so pointless.
Also, if any Verizon users have noticed this, that they've added VZ Navigator to the app list, as another app that is unable to be uninstalled. Droid's navigator is free, yet they have loaded an app, in VZ Navigator, that does the same exact thing, yet requires a $9.99/month fee to use. This is idiotic. The only real difference that I have noticed with the update that I can tolerate is the fact that you can now orient the phone in landscape either way, meaning that the phone will orient to landscape view with the top of the phone to the left or right, whereas before it would only orient landsacpe if the top of the phone was to the left. This is the only thing I can see that has been improved with the update, everything else is driving me to drink.
I talked with the people from HTC tech support, and the guy so eloquently informed me that "somewhere," on the internet you can find the old 2.1 system and essentially downgrade back to 2.1. I've been looking for a while now and am unable to find it, though. Maybe someone else has found it through a reputable site? Seems like this is the only option for now, and a ridiculous one at that.