Problem solved
I solved my problems , after figuring out the ring-tone and moving to phone , I installed a Droid live wallpaper .apk I use a lot (Droid Eye with random red dots racing from it) , it crashed every time I used the browser (Opera) , after messing with that for a few hours , I wiped "user data" , "cache partition" , "dalvik cache" with CWM and nandriod back to FRG83G build , poof works perfect again .
I love the MIUI ROM and the options it has , but just don't have any good luck with them , seems every time I tried there was always several little problems , keep up the good work , one day it will be flawless .