If you can't download to your phone, get astro file manager frome the market (free), and in the settings/preferences check "enable browser downloads" then download right from your phone. That should do the trick.
Click on the rom name or name of author that is listed at the top of this forum. Takes you to that roms dedicated forum. Go to stickies in that forum and there should be a main thread for the rom titled something like the same as the rom name and version. Then on this page you should find a dl link somewhere.