I found the update notice on my VZW HTC DROID INCREDIBLE (ADR6300) this morning before noon. I followed the installation instructions CAREFULLY. After I clicked 'Install Now', NOTHING happened - no install, no update and now, no recoverable notice for the update. I've read on various VZW, HTC and Incredible forums today that some installs went well, some received the 4.06.xxx update instead of the 4.08xxx, and some installs (mostly the 4.06xxx ones) came through with it's inherent problems of saying the service was Sprint, not Verizon, the screen was 4 inches, the market app icon and a variety of apps missing (not new news). I suspect the update was AGAIN yanked until the problem with the update is AGAIN resolved. One person wrote that he spoke to a VZW tech rep and they said no way to manually push the update or send another notice or 'invite', and said to just hold on until another notice for the update is pushed down to his phone. OH-SO-SAD. It's been a long frustrating wait already. As many have pointed out, HTC, VZW, or Google should post a link and let us download it ourselves. Is that too much to ask for? It's open source code after all. Maybe there's a complication I don't understand.
Still waiting. . .