I have my droid synced to facebook so all my contacts have a pic when i'm txting with them but when i send a txt it's just the default blank/android robot pic, is there a way to set a pic for myself or link it to my facebook?
Yeah with Handcent you can. Usually you can just click on your picture and it will have options. I recommend GoSMS though. I never thought I'd like anything more than Handcent but it's great