You guys all realize this is the Eris forum right? As far as I can see there is no way to change the color on the Eris. Also, Missed Call doesnt work on the Eris.
I know you do, but I think the others have Moto Droids and they are able to change the color. I dont think you can do it on the Eris. That was one of the first things I tried to find when I got mine.
Yea I too have been wondering if it is even possible. I have downloaded handcent, disabled the stock messaging app, changed all the settings a HUNDRED times, and still nothing...