Hey, I hear you. It's very frustrating when someone questions my intentions, or as they say, second-guesses what I mean. My wife does it all the time. For instance, she asks me what my opinion of something she has a position on already is, and when I give her my opinion, then she spends the next 10 minutes trying to debunk my reasoning and make me side with her. It's very frustrating, so I tell her, if you want my opinion, you have to accept that it's what I say it is and stop trying to get me to change my mind to justify your opinion. But I have to tell you as well, that there have been times when she has totally woken me up to a different perspective and reasoning which has resulted in my taking a different position. We're married going on 24 years, so obviously it hasn't been a "deal-breaker" for me or her. You know they say, "for better or worse".
I suppose we also marry our phones in a way, although it's a rather short marriage, but the same willingness to accept what we can't change applies. As you saw from my post above, I can't stand having to leave whatever application I am using to dig into menus from another area of the phone, to make a change that affects the application I was using in the first place. So for me, that "feature" is actually quite appealing and the minor nuisance of the keyboard icon appearing in the notification bar is just that...a minor nuisance. For me in fact, so minor I didn't even know it was there!