FML. Got curious so I just called mine (Overland Park, KS). Guy talked to his VZW reps there, who said it has been delayed until "the 20-somethingth." Literally. He said for their store, the 14th is a no-go. He has none in stock in the back yet, and has received no paperwork yet, so there is no way they could release it on Monday. I mentioned the advertisement that is supposed to come out next Sunday and my theory, he said my guess was as good as his. I also mentioned how I thought the iPhone release and 14-day return window threw a monkey-wrench into the release of the TB, and he seemed to agree. So, looks like I'm back to being patient until 2/20 or 2/24, seeing as how this week is not gonna happen (at least for me and my store).
Anyone who is still getting answers of the 14th when they call should try to get more details out of the reps (eg. do you have any in the back? are the accessories displayed yet? do you have paperwork in yet? will you sell it before verizon?).