I've used the FB app since day 1 of my droid and never had any problems with it. As far as battery useage I'm quite a heavy user throughout the day (web, text, voice, and numerous apps) and I still get a full day with the battery. As far as syncing goes you have the option under the FB settings to choose how... all FB contacts, only existing phone contacts, or not at all.
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