First off, I cannot help you with your issue. But I do know why you are not getting instant replys from Droid experts. It's because I was asleep when you first posted! Just kidding.
Forums are a GREAT way to get help on anything you are having trouble with. Not just computers, but anything!
Unfortunately for you at that moment in time, this is not a chatroom or lobby. In a chatroom, everyone logged into Droidforums.net would see your message.
But go to the Forum link from the home page and scroll to the bottom until you see
http://www.droidforums.net/forum/online.php
Currently Active Users: 6935 (986 members and 5949 guests)
Holy crap!~~!!@@! good thing this isn't a chatroom, you would be scrolling up endlessly for miles in a chat trying to find help... or worse.. annoying everyone by repeating the same question three times in the chatroom while everyone else is asking other questions.
It is my thinking that leads me to believe that with proper categories and nice people, we can organize this information and help people. You could probably even use the search button if you're lucky and find the same issue and someone replying in that thread on how to fix it.
But... unfortunately with categories and subsections, a lot of these people will not see your new message. That does not mean you should post it in several different sections, it only means someone could not help you, or you posted it in the wrong section.
You seem to have posted this messages in the right section, so I'm guessing no one can help you. I do not know if this is the right forum for you, but you are always welcome to try other forums. If they can answer your question with satisfaction, I suppose that would be the forum for you. It can't hurt.
Anyway, sorry I couldn't really help you. I visit a lot of different types of forums and I almost Never have to post a thread in any one of them, usually someone else has already had my issue that I can relate to and I can begin research to finding the solution from there. I would research your issue if I had time, but I am currently having my own issues with BB Froyo and messaging.
If we don't have it, google does!