Hi,
I am having the same, but opposite issue. I got my update a few days after a Verizon associate told me I would be getting one. The only reason the Verizon associate told me was because my phone was automatically resetting itself over and over for about 45mins. He checked my phone out and said he couldn't find anything wrong with it (typical). Later that night I went through the apps trying to find an Anti-Virus or some clean up programs that might detect something in my software. I downloaded the free app "AntiVirus" and it found a few problems with my phone. Well out of curiosity I went to check the status of my "System Update" and noticed that the new 2.2 Froyo update was downloading, but it looked as if it was frozen. I put my phone aside and let it download the file while I slept, the download didn't finish until after 10a.m. the next morning. When it gave me an option to "Install Now" or "Install Later" I kept hitting on "Install Now" and nothing would happen. So finally, I just hit "Install Later" only problem is it has been a few days now and I have not been given the option to re install 2.2
I just deleted the AntiVirus app out of curiosity on whether or not it was suppressing the update. I've been in contact with Verizon over the past few days, and they keep assuring me that I will get the update and have given me troubleshooting methods to make sure that when I get the update again, my phone will take it.
My phones software still reads 2.1, but says, 2.1-update1, every time I check for updates my phone tells me that my software is current.
Anyone else having this problem, or any advice???