I have read that a standard 5 pin usb cable with connect to the eris and charge the phone and allow communication to the computer. However, will using the 5 pin usb cable re-align the pins on the phone after a while? or are they matched perfectly to align with no worries. I would hate to use a 5 pins and after a while the standard one that comes with it no longer works...can anybody comments on this? verizon wants 20 dollars for an extra one...way to much and I dont want to go hunting for one or pay for one on the net...