I just got my Droid X a couple days ago. I've already rooted it, and I have the Droid Overclock app from Jrummy.
As far as I can tell right now, there's not really much option for ROMs, and most of them are buggy. I'm sticking with stock for now until the official Gingerbread update, if there is one.
I love this phone. It's just like my OG Droid, but better. I really wish there were a way to unlock to bootloader. I'm sure there's a dev out there somewhere working hard to crack it.
You guys are awesome though. And donations will be coming in the near future. This whole forums deserves a very large donation for being the great information source that it is.