Can't say what the fix is but I have found out one thing it has something to do with location. I have a media dock in Sterling Va. and one in Manassas.
When I put it in the dock in Sterling it works, I put it in the one in Manassas and it says it can't connect.
I have called *228 and updated the prl with no luck. Weird. Thought it was just my droid weather widget was corrupted. I am going to sbf it back to 2.01 and run the full update (ota) back up to the current version to see if it fixes it.