Now as for the OTA don't be too sure that Droid owners won't get it at the same time or for that matter 1 - 2 days after the N1. The reason I say this is because Google/Adobe were pushing the N1 and the Droid REALLY hard at Google I/O. They want this out in peoples hands A.S.A.P.
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The ONLY way I see that happening on our end (VZW) is if VZW forgoes testing the build and just pushes it out.
As you know VZW's test's OS builds extensively and under your timeline we have to assume they have the final build right now and then assume again that they will test it for a week and then assume yet again that it will pass.
Remember we are talking about VZW here : )
They do not ever do things quickly. 2.1 was a perfect example.
This is the exact same scenario. Rumor and speculation of a quick release. Quotes from the CEO of Motorola, twitter, facebook, BGR, Endgadget, you name it, never panned out.
They (VZW) simply do not move that quickly. They are sloth like.