We got one

[Clintlgm]

Got my wife one yesterday, Sam's Club preorder. got $200 Gift Card, the $200+ Samsung accessories Free Activation
I guess we'll get the wireless charger, don't really need a SD card just moved her 128GB from her Mega 2. She loves it so far. I find it quite similar to my S8+
She got the Orchid Gray 64GB version, we just put a cheap TUP case on it so that she can hole it with out it slipping out of here hand
No complaint so far it did take quite awhile to get a full charge on the battery, using Aker fast chargers so we'll see on this battery my be larger than S8 +

 

[me just sayin]

unless they changed it, you should get both the wireless charger and microsd card. you said it took a while to charge the phone. mine did not take that long to charge last week and it was already at 72 percent so it could have been the non-oem charger you used.

so far I am impressed with the phone and I am sure your your wife will be too.