So it comes down to:
Incredible:
+ Slightly Nicer Camera
+ Sense UI
+ Faster Stock Speed
+ 8gb Internal Memory (although some apps get confused when no sd card is present)
- Cheaper Construction
- Screen "Too" Vivid (not mentioned in the video but many others have said this)
Droid:
+ Physical Keyboard
+ Heavy Duty Construction
+ Sharper, Slightly Higher Res Screen
- Heavy
- Slightly Worse Camera
- Slower Stock
Equal:
* Speed Once Overclocked
* 2.1 OS
Honestly I think they are VERY closely matched. So much so that I think the main thing people will thing about when deciding is if they want a heavy, durable, qwerty phone or a lighter, simpler "tablet" style.
Note: It isn't mentioned often but doesn't the Incredible have an FM Radio? That is a + in my opinion!