All the stuff you so innocently say ("for better or for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health"), will actually happen. The agony & ecstasy of marriage. Put your marriage and your spouse first, be patient, and you'll get through it. Before you know it, you'll be old farts like all of us -- 39th anniversary for my husband & I this year! :icon_ lala::icon_ lala: