I should have done a search first! I found the answer in this awsome forum! Change the quality of the video first in the settings in the video camera section to low quality for text messaging works like a charm!
I have a Droid and says size limit reached and I've had a video for two seconds up to a minute. It says that for all. Can anyone tell me why and If I can fix it. Thanks y'all... can't email videos either.