I have a kinda nutso associate at work who claims to be able to access a person's droid through some type of HTC Droid exchange server??? He says he can pull up messages, passwords, etc... While I think he is quite possibly nuts and delusional, it's also kind of freaky if he can do it and are there ways to protect yourself from this? I should point out he is extremely computer literate (I am not). I know there are apps that can be installed on a person's phone, but to actually access a remote server of sorts to "hack" a person's account screams a small cell with heavy iron bars... I've heard rumors of bbery servers being compromised in this fashion, but I thought the Droid phones were sercure???