You have to return to unrooted stock, then accept the update. Then re-root and flash Tweaked 3.0
That's where I am right now. Runnimg Tweaked 3.0...
I'm rooted w/cwm5 and running Tweaked 3.0 rom.
ICS = Ice Cream Sandwich (Android 4.0.x)
There is no fully functional ics rom just yet.
I found this here: Steps to Liberating your AppRadio
2.3.x (Gingerbread) or above (Ice Cream Sandwich (4.0.x) or Jelly Bean (4.1.x)).
Wow. It looks like you were left alone. Not surprising with the rom and device bashing you did.
Most of the time the bricking is caused by user...
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