In order to get out of the friendzone it involves a great improvement in social skills, a major shift in overall self-improvement, and often the involvement of “jealousy” or other women. There’s nothing more motivating to women than other women. The interesting thing about the entire process to get out of the friendzone is, many men are so much more improved that they lose interest in the girl that friendzoned them. It’s also even possible that original girl may come crawling back, realizing how badly she “messed up”, with minimal effort on your part. Of course, that isn’t guaranteed or even any more than a 50/50 chance. This process should really be about you, and not any particular woman.