If you flash with phone and not pda you will over write your modums file and your phone will no longer work. Its more complicated than that but its the short version.
Would there be any way i.could get you onto gtalk or the samsung fascinate irc? I think i can help but its better if i could walk you through the steps. It's kinda the last thing to try, and im hoping it works.
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