I've been working on this for a while and I can call it good for release. There are a few things that I still want to do, like change the background in Contacts and dialer, and many of the other black backgrounds. I also still have to do Pandora, Facebook, and Twitter.
Let me know your thoughts, I hope you like it as much s I do!
Here's the link to the theme -http://bit.ly/dJgWIK
Also a link the the ADW theme for icons (you can also get it in the market ) - http://bit.ly/gUCZFq
Apply it as all other themes, and as always You're responsible for your actions with your phone.
Thanks to those that helped me w/ this along the way:
thanks to J.B. themes for hosting my stuff.