Okay, I tested DejaOffice and CompanionLink over about five days (I think the full period would have been a week) and it seems workable. I have purchased the software and am synching it to Palm Desktop via home wifi. I have it set to synch manually, since I'd only expect it to sync when and where I ask it to. It seems to be pulling in the Google calendar, which is nice. I was trying to stay toward one calendar for frequent updating and Google's calendar works well for this. A potential hitch would be that I share the calendar with one other person for scheduling. That person does not want to see my extras like birthdays, etc. As long as this is a one-way synch from Google Calendar to DejaOffice, this is good.
I think this issue is solved. Yea, and thank you all for all of the great feedback. Wish I was up to speed on the Droid. It is a terrific asset and a phone.