I'm currently using UD 2.5 right now, and I freaking love it! But, Lithium was my first "daily driver" rom, and I really hope it goes back to getting the support it used to
Is MIUI really that much better than LithMod?
Well that explains everything....
I've been using Actngrezy's Project Elite:
Actngrezy - Droid Forum - Verizon Droid & the Motorola Droid Forum
Very impressive ROM-great set of features without a lot of extra cruft, extremely stable, lots of themes, frequent and regular updates, and great participation and support from the Dev team.
I'll still be keeping my eye on Lithium to see what happens, but PE is probably going to be my main ROM for a while.
Personally, I like the small bits included in PE-DSP manager, pulldown power widgets, etc as well as great stability and performance. I tend to disregard Quadrant scores, since they are a static benchmark rather than a dynamic, real-use one. For me, PE is a bit snappier than Lithium was, but YMMV.
I also appreciate the regular updates, quick inclusion of user requests from features and regular forum participation from the devs.
Certainly nothing against the Lithium team and the ROM-PE is just working better for me right now.