Well, as luck would have it, after all this exploring of different options for syncing my Droid with my Outlook Calendar and Contacts, it turns out that the program I had been using for the last year or more, and that I LOVED, now does sync with Outlook 2013!!!! I was so excited! This is the most seamless app for syncing Outlook calendar/contacts that I have ever used! I highly recommend it for anyone looking for something like this.
And best of all - it is FREE!!!!!
Here is a link, if you want to read more about it:
FJ Software Development
Thanks for everyone's help!