I just checked for updates and it is doing the first 7.1m file right now!!
My phone says in the status that the 7mb file is there. Hasn't donwloaded yet because the status part is left blank. I restarted my phone and it won't let me check new. what do I do? :/
The ICS update has now been downloaded by a number of people (me included in western MI) and it is 4.03 with Sense 3.6 as was suggested by many people. So it is really legit.