You have a group of people (vast majority) who love it. You have a group of people (vocal minority) who hate it . And then you got the people who haven't received it yet listening to the vocal minority that are afraid to get it.
You also have the same stages which I've discussed in many post. 1. Anticipation of the new update. 2. Receipt and praise of the new update. 3. Anger and resentment about the new update (most of this is from people who don't understand how their phone works). 4. Acceptance 5. Moving on and talking about the next update. We got to get to stage 4 to get to 5 so lets not go there yet. I do believe however you will see another updated for the Droid and they are not even close to being done with the Incredible.