Thanks for the answers guys, I think i over reacted when I seen the 8.0 .. I got Fly V 0.1 on today. Seems like my battery life is lasting quite a bit longer then it did before with this ROM, Few little bugs in it but that non the less seems to be a bit quicker too. What is the best ROM there is probably right now that you can customize with ROMS and have a bunch of different features ?
There are some custom roms still in the works. Yes, we are limited by the bootloader (hell most of my personal tweaks are in the ramdisk, which I'm scared to try in case of a brick)
The (lesser known) rubiX (Rubik for the droid x) will be releasing soon as I get a chance to work on it some more, with a blurless version, blur version, and I'm also working on an AOSP rom for the x