Not too sure if I have the right forum, so I apologize if this overlaps.
I just installed the new 2.2. update to my Droid and much to my dismay, the volume setting is now changed (there doesn't appear to be a vibrate THEN silent mode). I know you are supposed to go into the Settings menu, but I haven't found the setting I need to switch the phone to 'vibrate only' (e.g. vibrate without sound)
Any help would be greatly appreciated -