How, on earth do I turn off vibration completely?! I have selected to never vibrate in settings but it still vibrates when I receive SMS and calls!!!
Try free power widget? One of its options is a toggle btwn volumes, vib, silent. Maybe that will actually be silent for you.
Otherwise try going into phone, then settings and same from messaging to see if there are additional options there.
Sent from my HTC Rezound.