I just got an Incredible yesterday morning (switched from an OG droid) and the two things that I absolutely miss are the powerstrip in the notification shade (which I noticed a few roms have) and my dockbar from ADW EX. I found a few sense roms that are stripped down to allow you use another launcher, but all of the additional sense stuff is removed.
I know this is probably confusing to you all but is there a rom that includes these following features? Essentially what I would like to do is just replace the round thing at the bottom of the screen (i think its called rosie, correct?) and add in the powerstrip.