
Originally Posted by
Curtita1
I realize happiness with a phone is personal preference, but I'd really appreciate some input on which phones you think are best and why.
So you realize the conflict? Asking others isn't relevant. You need to determine what
you prefer and polling others won't help any more than asking others what food/color/car/etc you should prefer. We don't know you and we can't make such assessments for you. If you still want the opinions of others then read the other "what device should I get?" threads instead of reinventing the wheel again for the nth time. Reading the other similar threads may help in that you might run across considerations that you haven't even thought about.
Every device has its pros and cons. Figuring out which one suits you best involves looking at the pros and cons and seeing what you're willing to accept. It's not a one-size-fits-all process or else everyone would use the same exact device.
There's really nothing in your criteria that helps to narrow down the options. Any device is capable of what you're looking for. You need to tell us what criteria you have that can help in selecting one for you. Most people tend to have strong preferences for physical characteristics such as size, weight, form factor, keyboard, screen, "build quality", etc. Have you looked at any devices in person to assess your preferences in these areas? Those could help to narrow it down for you.
I'd also suggest looking at devices with different UI's. Android users seem to have strong preferences for "vanilla" Android or one of the UI's such as Blur, Sense, Touchwiz, etc. We can't tell you what will suit you best. You need to evaluate these things for yourself no matter how much you read.
If you still feel clueless then find people with similar preferences and ask them. At least you stand a better chance of matching your particular needs/wants than randomly polling people on the internet who may have completely different needs/wants.
You always have a return period if you're unhappy with a device. Make the most of it. Play with the device. Don't decide that you don't like the device after your return window closes.

Originally Posted by
Curtita1
Part of my panic is that I won't really have time to play with the phones in the store because we will be out of town. We'll be coming back the 20th and I have to change my trade the iPhone back in on the 21st.
Don't rush the process. Return the iPhone if you have to to meet the return deadline but take your time in selecting a device. Learn from the past.

Originally Posted by
Curtita1
BTW, we live in the sticks, so reception is a HUGE factor.
That's really going to be more of a coverage issue. I'm not aware of any centralized resource that objectively compares reception on all devices. You're only going to get people presenting you with anecdotal evidence which really doesn't prove anything. There are many factors that affect coverage/reception and proper testing means accounting for and taking measures to rule out the other factors. Your typical user isn't really capable of that.
Thoroughly test out your coverage with Verizon when you do get a device to ensure that their coverage is suitable for you. Also, keep in mind that poor coverage will definitely have an adverse affect on battery life for any device.