What is best?

I bought a charge back in june I tried a million kernals or whatever its been so long I believe I am running stock ED1 with go launcher. Is this the best route? I dont care about battery life i just want my phone to be as fast as possible and have root...what are my options?

Should i keep ed1?
does golauncher slow my phone down?
what apps can i stop running that verizon puts on the phone? i already changed some .apks to .bak like amazon kindle and rockband but i know theres more.
I currently have root explorer, titanium backup, super manager, superuser and ive tried overclocking apps but my phone reboots randomly when i run those.

Ive spent countless hours reading forums and i cant make a decision. im scared i wont pick the best rom available.

so ROM/kernal suggestions please and ty!!
fyi i am looking to make my phone as quick as possible i dont care about themes, changing colors, and wigets.

o below is a ss of what im currently running i honestly dont know lol i had alot of trouble rooting my phone back in the summer cuz the new ed version wouldnt work if u wanted root access so i tried 100 different things for all i know i have 4 roms installed + go launcher

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