1. went back to stock root (restored the nandroid backup I created right after rooting and before I flashed any roms using Bionic Bootstrapper, rebooting in recovery mode)
2. rebooted
3. followed the forever root instructions using the root explorer method (
How to maintain root through any upgrade (Motorola Devices Only)
4. rebooted
5. downloaded the .893 update file (
Droid Bionic Found Update Files --- Read Before You Flash)
6. moved the downloaded file to my sd card
7. rebooted my phone to STOCK recovery (hold in both vol buttons then hit the power button, when little guy with triangle and exclamation point comes on, select recovery, hit the vol up button to select)
8. install the downloaded .893 update file
9. rebooted