i use handcent, but i don't believe that that's what's causing the problem. three times my phone's all of a sudden deleted every text i have. i see forums all the time, just wondering if there is a solution yet. and yes, i have thought about turning the auto delete off. i thought it was just when my sent message counter got to 1000, so i set it to reset every morning and i haven't got that high. and i thought that fixed it, but no. it did it again yesterday.
rc isn't really what i mean. i mean like vnc or ssh.
i used to control my jailbroken ipod touch on my windows laptop all the time. just had to open up the ssh gates and i was able to vnc right on in there, but i haven't tried it on my droid or since i've gotten my macbook pro. i saw a forum about doing it connected via usb, but i was trying to find a way connected via wifi or bluetooth.