i recently purchased the kensington Bluetooth Car Kit for my droid.
LiquidAUX™ Bluetooth® Car Kit - K33428US - Kensington
It was recommended by another member here. It was working wonderful. As you can see from the link it comes with a remote that attaches to the steering wheel. when the phone automatically connected with the device, all i had to do was press play on the on the remote. it would play and pause and skip. now NOTHING. nothing at all. doesn't play. the music still plays but only if i manually press play on the phone.
i tried it with my other phone, nextel 8.50i and droid incredible and both work fine. so it leads me to believe it is the DROID.
i tried unpair and repair and restart and all that easy stuff.
anyone have any suggestions??