Another n00b question, I think I'm missing something. Every custom rom thread I go in just shows the download for the current version (and everything that is new to that version) but I think I need the actual rom on my phone before I can update it to the current version. Is that right? And if so where can I get these (BB or Chevy for example)?
No, you don't need to start at the first version of the ROM. In other words, if you want Simply Stunning 4.6 you don't need to go to 4.5 first. All the current version of the ROMs include what was in the previous versions plus more tweaks and bug fixes. So, actually it's better to start with the latest version because the known kinks have been worked out.
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