I have tried many of these as well, jeffv2, ud, the nightlies and they all have their ups and Downs. I was randomly reading another Droid blog when I found this link to Liquid gingerbread, so far been running it for 2 days now pretty clean only issue is a random reboot every once in a while. Data/ 3g works after calls. the Camera does work. It has all the gingerbread features as well as plenty of custom settings.
Liquid Gingerbread v1.0 Preview Release | Liquid Smooth Roms