Gingerbread is finally rolling out for the Droid Incredible. We had a false-start back in September in which the update started to roll-out, but was quickly yanked. Obviously, they must have found a few more bugs to squish. This newest update, version 4.08.605.2, has again been officially announced by Verizon. Perhaps today this one will stick?
Here's some update instructions from VZW: Verizon Droid Incredible Gingerbread Update Instructions
Thanks to trestevenson for the tip!