Can you get a flash player for the DROID to play movies, tv, clips, etc??
Not yet. Android 2.2 will have it, and Adobe has a beta registration on right now.
This is a highly-covered topic in the Droidsphere, you may want to search a bit for further details.
OG Droid w/ Pete's GPA16 w/ stock Kernel using auto OC script. (retired)
LG G2X w/ rooted 2.3.3 leak.
It's OK for your Droid to be different. Just be supportive and reassuring and it will do just fine. It's when you or other people point at it or mock it for being different is when its' feelings get hurt. Just show it unconditional love regardless of its' differences and it will in turn reciprocate that love and loyalty.