There is no contacts sync option in the official Facebook application for the Droid 2/X (and who knows how many other versions of Motorola with Motoblur)
This is outrageous. I spent too much time on this, the D1 worked flawlessly. I ended up having to back-up my contacts and purge the contacts cache and reimport for it to allow me to remove the damn facebook users from my contacts. It imports ALL your facebook friends which is stupid. I just want to sync with my current phone contacts. I lost my corporate contacts and my email over this BS, had to resync from a backup.
Why do I have two Facebook icons in the application manager, one doesn't work (official facebook) and the Moto one has to work separately. Twitter doesn't do this, I'm able to sync just fine with it. Apparently Zuckerberg doesn't use a Motorola Droid with Motoblur, or it would be fixed ASAP. Shameful. [/rant]