First off, great list! Thanks!
However I don't think mobile defense is available for the droid yet...
According to their website, they are working on development and you can add yourself to the notification list, but I think you should remove mobile defense from your list for now to avoid confusion.
From their website (https://www.mobiledefense.com/download)
Important Notice: Verizon DROID and Sprint Hero
We have recently implemented CDMA support and we are testing this release privately with a small group of users. Email firstname.lastname@example.org to be notified when Mobile Defense is available for CDMA phones.
I tweet for twitter, newsrob for rss, on/off widgets such as lockpatter on/off(just search for on/off). Best calendar widget is Pure Calendar(paid). Talk to Me is a great voice to voice translation app. Batterylife is a great looking battery widget. FML is a great APP for FmyLife.
LED Flashlight takes advantage of the LED from camera on droid, and Locale is an AWESOME program. Toggle settings allows you to easily control EVERYTHING on your droid. Set as a shortcut and you're set.
Volume Control can be set to override that stupid volume button on the side so that you don't bump it.
WPtoGo allows you to publish to your wordpress blog from your phone without having to use the browser.
I'll get a blog post going at medicthree.com in the next day reviewing these and more.