I access my iTunes library using HomePipe. Just adding another option for you to research.
I've been using audiogalaxy. Synchs your itunes library and any other music files you choose on your computer with your droid. Must have an internet connection to stream but works great for me
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I've been using TuneSync to wirelessly sync iTunes to my Droid Incredible over my home network for about 8 months. I really like it. The only glitch is the "protected AAC" file format which will not sync to the Droid via TuneSync, but you can burn those songs to a CD, then upload them in MP3 format back to iTunes. That's a pain in the butt, but once it's done, you've got all the tunes you want on your Droid, given the memory on the phone.