Well I figured out a sort of workaround using Headset Button Controller to make it act like a single button controller, however It won't let me answer calls because headset button controller has answer hangup call locked to single click of the center button.
Since my headsets middle button does nothing and hitting the other buttons randomly produce either a long click or a click and hold that just won't do. Not sure why the program won't let me change that
Edit: Figured out how to control the long click or click and hold, so I can do pause/play and next song. Sadly still no end call answer call, emailed the program editor.
Edit2: Nevermind on picking up the calls... mirophone doesn't work on droid, although it works on my Toshiba Thrive tablet... very odd